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An Update from Deep in Egypt: Executive Director Nermien Riad

Nermien here writes from a journey through a few places throughout Egypt where Coptic Orphans works. She began in Aswan, moving northward back to the Nile delta. Here is the route she followed.

I've been travelling through Egypt this month to oversee the work being done. There’s so much I want to share with you from my travels. Here’s just a taste:

We started in Aswan (111 degrees!) and attended a workshop for widowed mothers. They had to determine how to manage their households on 400 Egyptian pounds (about US$72) a month. Some of the mothers answered, “The first LE40 to God.” Wow.

We traveled to Komombo, to a small village in the gabal (mountains) and visited a very small NGO (built almost literally out of mud - el toub el nay ) that received a grant from us. Yet even with incredibly few resources, they are teaching the village how to use computers. Further up north in Luxor we saw the mother who opened up a hairdresser shop in her home so she could support her family after her husband died. She told us that one of the reasons she likes the Not Alone workshops for mothers so much because they not only give her a chance to meet and talk with other women, she also gets to talk in front of a group, something she has no opportunity to do in her small village.

We continued north to Sohag to visit another grantee site in El Hawaweesh that teaches skills to handicapped and the deaf. Abouna (the priest) there is filled with passion and commitment that they will succeed no matter what. I love to see people who let nothing stand in their way, and this Abouna inspired me to figure out a way to make this kind of spirit a criteria for our grant program!

Nermien Riad with two girls at a workshop for widowed mothers on household finance management in Aswan at the Southern extreme of Egypt.

After seeing this year’s Serve to Learn youth from abroad in action in Tahta, I am confident that they will carry the mission of CO into the next generation. They have truly immersed themselves into the world of the children, and have their hearts and minds rooted in the country. You know how sometimes in a crowd a child will wander over to his father or mother and lean on them while the parent nonchalantly puts his arms around the child and continues the conversation? That's what I saw with the kids and George, one of the Serve to Learn volunteers. Later, we met with His Grace Bishop Ashia of Tahta, who said to us, “ Coptic Orphans has proven itself by having its programs last this long. It’s apparent that there is continuous improvement.”

The Valuable Girl Project site in the small and remote village in Nazlet Omara is a beehive of activities and creativity. What was designed as a one year project is now going on its 5 th year, and this site is competing with many others who want to have the VGP. One girl at another site that will be closed said, "If my own father had died, I wouldn't have cried this much over him.”

Nermien talks to two boys at a Coptic Orphans-funded computer center in King Mariut, Alexandria - the only one of its kind in the village.

We took a bus from Sohag to Hurghada (6 hours) on a road that is littered with vehicle remains of deadly accidents. Our Reps travel on these roads and other ones like it all over Egypt as part of their duties with us, and we definitely need to continue to pray for their safety. There are close to 100 Reps here at the annual Middle Egypt Rep training, and it is getting close to being too big to manage. And this training is happening three more times in the three other areas. You can imagine the logistics and expenses. But seeing all the Reps gathered here makes it worth it; you can almost see them growing together as one. Now the speaker is here talking about discovering talents. His first question is, "Are we underdeveloped ( motakhalifeen ), thus we are poor? Or we are poor, thus we are underdeveloped?” Just think what is possible if we don’t allow ourselves to be defined by our circumstances.

He tells us that our power is in our ability to affect people. It is about us as people; we are the ones who make the real difference in the lives of the children and mothers, not the activities in the program, he says. Without being "hot"--not just lukewarm, it can't be done. So now here I am, participating in a training which begins by working on unlocking our own potential. I guess it is true how what goes around comes around…

In Christ,

Nermien

 
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